what is love?
love is by far the most unusual feeling of mixed emotions of happiness,joy and satisfaction.Its when you feel you had millions and millions of butterflies fluttering in your stomach.they say love makes the world go round. i say,love makes my life worthwhile. :)
love is the gift of giving,without expecting anything back in return. Its when you do good to others and receive kindness in all other unexpected ways.
love is giving your undivided attention to your partner and also exchanging words of appreciation to each other.generally, you will feel darn good when ur with ur loved ones, never even wanting to pause for a millisecond to watch the world pass by.
love is anything else,but undescribable.it takes you on a ride,a rollercoaster ride to be more specific. somtimes ur up, at other times ur down. wen the momentum builds up, love brings you to all the uexpected places, and spill words you'll never think you'll say. when it comes tumbling down, you feel like taking the knife and stabbing countless times on the hart coz of the excruciating pain you had to bear.
love, just what is love?
love, something pure and everlasting.
love, knows no boundaries.
love, is sensationally magical.
love, is that tingling feeling that makes your hart jump out of ur chest.
love, is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness.
oh well.
let me just share a piece of info i've found recently. its really helpful though. :)
do read this baby.it not only boost our confidence but will guide us through what we call 'hardships in love'. :)
People in healthy relationships have the following characteristics.
1. They allow for individuality.
2. They experience both oneness with and separateness from another.
3. They bring out the best qualities in self and another.
4. They accept endings.
5. They experience openness to change and exploration.
6. They invite growth in the other person.
7. They experience true intimacy.
8. They feel the freedom to ask honestly for what is wanted.
9. They experience giving and receiving in the same way.
10. They do not attempt to change or control the other.
11. They encourage self-sufficiency of partners.
12. They accept limitations of self and other.
13. They do not seek unconditional love.
14. They accept and respect commitment.
15. They have a high self-esteem.
16. They trust the memory of the beloved; they enjoy solitude.
17. They express feelings spontaneously.
18. They welcome closeness; risk vulnerability.
19. They care with detachment.
20. They affirm equality and personal power of self and other.
this piece is really informative. i'll get back to this whenever thunder strikes,just keep it handy. :)
baby pls get well soon. i love you bucuk ku!! muacks!! :)
we're going thru rocky situations these past few days and im just glad that we managed to pull it all through.thanks for making me realise the importance of being in love baby.thanks to let me understand the true meaning of being there for each other and taking our love to greater heights.thank you syg ku!!
at times, litte voices in my head whispers questions like 'why is he still so good to despite all that i've done?' , 'what makes his love flame burning so strong for me?'...
well, at other times, i think you deserve someone wayy waaay better than me baby. im such a pain in the assss. dont you think so?
hmmm. i've found the answers to my burning questions baby, you dont have to explain it to me..
*ITS BCAUSE YOU LOVE ME SO MUCH.*
ask me, how did i know??
i didnt, i just FELT it coming to me & knocking on my door every single day. :)))
baby, ur really special to me, do you realise that? hehe..
muacks!!
love,
shark.
<3!